Here’s how I mentally approach meeting a new woman: I’m cocky and funny, I steal their lines, I tease them, and I don’t ever give them a break. In my opinion, the one most important skill, no matter your looks, height, age, or income – is humor. I don’t care if you’re four feet tall [...]
What If She Says “No?”
The way I see it, underpinning all of these outer details and techniques is your self-image, confidence, personality, and all of that other intangible stuff that takes a bit to get under control. So let me address how I got my personal self-image stuff together before I talk about what I do specifically.When I first [...]
The Initial Approach
This one is simple. I’ve tried probably 50 different types of ‘lines’ and techniques for meeting women, and I’ve found that the simple ones work the best. If I’m in an environment that has a lot of people, and I’m with a friend, I like to start by asking a woman for her ‘opinion’ on [...]
How To Answer Any Question That You Don’t Want To Answer
Women have a way with questions. They seem to always ask questions that men don’t want to answer.
Questions like:
“Are you seeing anyone else right now?”
“How do you feel about marriage?”
“Do you want kids?”
“How do you feel about me?”
“Do I look fat in these pants?”
Know what I’m talking about?
Well, it took me awhile, but I finally [...]
How To Tease Woman (The Right Way)
When I first met one particular girl, I took her hand when she got into the car and held it for a few seconds… then took it away saying “No hand holding this early” as if it were her idea… then at lunch, I put out my hand for her to take it, and then [...]
Women Love Sex
just like everything else in life, a great lover is not easy to find. Women become instantly addicted to skillful lovers who know how to make them feel ecstasy and teach them new ways of feeling incredible. Every woman is slightly different. There is no one magic system that every woman responds to. If what [...]
How Women Test Men And Why
In my opinion, most women, and especially the ‘hotties’ have gone through a learning curve here in our western culture that has, on average, given them a sort of ‘predictable psychological makeup.’ Now, there are differences between these women… some are smart, some are not… some are tall, some are short… some are cerebral, some [...]
Where To Meet Women
Here’s the deal: If you want to meet more women, you have to go places that they are. If you like athletic women, go to the gym or spend time at the coffee shop or juice bar next to a gym. If you like spiritual women, take yoga or meditation classes. If you like large [...]
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How To Take The Next Step [Advance]
OK, so we’re on the way home from coffee (because I said “OK, let’s go…”) and we’re back at my house. Here’s one that I love… if it’s at night, look at your watch and say “Well, I have to get up in the morning… but… OK, you can come in for a few minutes…” [...]
Do As Much As You Can To Improve Appearance
First, I looked at myself. I asked “If I were the type of woman that I would like to attract (I like super hot, very intelligent women), what would make me want to be with a man?” So I started to work on my ‘presentation’ of myself. I now think that it’s important to get EVERY [...]
Women Don’t Make Sense
For most men, a woman is like a Chinese puzzle inside of a brain twister. Much of their behavior makes no sense at all (to men). If there’s one thing that I’m clear about, it’s that most women THINK differently than most men and most women want different things than most men. This is hard [...]
Is She Out Of My League
Let’s get a little deeper into the female heart and mind. Females select males most of the time in nature… and in modern
human courtship. And even if the man selects the woman, many if not most women still harbor the secret fantasy that they’re ‘letting him do it’ etc. Sooooooo…. It’s good to address this issue and point [...]
Why Women Are Attracted To Things Like Fame, And Money
I recently answered the question “What is it about fame and money and power that attracts women?” for someone. I say that women are attracted to men that are famous, rich, powerful for a REASON. My opinion is that they believe on a genetically and socially programmed, unconscious level that these men are more intelligent, [...]
The Six Things That Attract Women
1) Means (Wealth, possessions, gifts to them or providing for them)
2) Power (Influence, Leadership, provide safety)
3) Fame
4) Looks (Including height)
5) Exclusivity (Royalty, already married, hard to get, affiliation)
6) Personality (Humor, creativity, romance, intelligence, mystique etc.)
Now, numbers one through five are largely out of your immediate
control. If you’re not rich, you’re probably not going to get [...]
Very Attractive Women Are Approached All The Time
Most attractive women are approached in one way or another all the time by men.
I was watching Chris Rock doing a stand up routine recently. Chris was telling the women
in the audience that anytime a man is being
nice, it’s because he’s offering sex (or ‘dick’ as he said).
So if a guy says “Wow, you look great” [...]
Practicing Body Language
Many people agree that women are far more sensitive to body language than men are. I have to say, in my experience, women can detect all kinds of things from body language. Ask a female friend to describe what’s going on with a person by looking at them, and you’ll be surprised at all the [...]
Signs That A Woman Is Interested
I’ve read all the books that say “If a woman tilts her head to the side, licks her lips, fondles her hair and looks over her shoulder at you, there’s a 67% chance that she’s interested in you.” Here’s what I’ve found: The main sign signal that I look for now is “Is she acting [...]
Getting Phone Numbers Or Email Addresses
I’ve personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers. I’ve found that email addresses are far better. Let me explain. I perfected the art of getting phone numbers a couple of years ago. If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in about a minute. I found out [...]
Two Ways Women Think About Men And How You Control This(Part 1)
I believe that women see men that they get involved with as either ‘long term relationship’ material or ‘sex’ material. You have to make the choice about which category you’d like to be in. By the way, if you get involved sexually, you can usually extend that for the long term. If, on the other [...]
(Part 2) When You Meet
A good friend of mine points out that it’s better to ask a women to come to your house for the first meeting so you can leave from there (On the phone you can say “Well, there’s a great coffee shop right near my place. Why don’t you just ring my doorbell, and I’ll come [...]
Develop A Personality That Is Irresistible To Women
In my experience, it’s far better to ATTRACT a woman than to CHASE a woman. If a woman is ATTRACTED to you, half the game is over. In sales, it’s much easier to sell your product to someone who’s called you and said “Can you help me?” than to try to sell to people who [...]
Thinking In Time Frames
Here’s a common problem: A man tries to impress a woman by doing things that show that he’s a good LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP kind of guy, but the woman responds by being stand-offish. I have read some interesting research that shows that women have a few main categories in their minds that they slot men [...]
Insecurity and Neediness
Insecurity and neediness are two of the biggest obstacles to success with women. Insecurity and neediness are two sides of the A man is needy when he craves attention or recognition. He shows that he’s insecure when he ACTS on these needs. Insecurity shows up when a man does not feel comfortable with who he [...]
It’s OK To Be A Man
My research leads me to believe that men are ‘naturally’ inclined to have one main woman that they are devoted to, but that they like to sleep with other women as opportunity arises. You can believe what you want, Think about it. There are major advantages to men (or at least to their genes) to [...]
